The Mirror concept van Carl Jung.

We kept meeting the same kind of people, different names, different faces, but the same betrayal, the same abandonment, the same cold silence. One day, exhausted and alone, Jung ask ”Why does this keep happening to me?” And deep within, a quiet voice answers, “Because you still haven’t met yourself”. That was the day he stopped blaming the world… And started exploring the world within. Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life, and you will call it fate.

Carl Jung